Simply Upset.
Published on May 15th, 2008So i went on the past weekend and had an amazing time with two of my favorite people in the world. Some beautiful pictures were the outcome of that amazing night. I personally believe that me and my friends looked absolutely stunning and beautiful in those pictures. However there was this one individual, a male, an unattractive male with an ugly personality who took it upon himself to gossip my name and another in the picture to call us big(as in fat) and ugly. I dare that person to come to me and say it to my face. I may be ‘fat’, big, voluptuous! I may be all those words. But whatever you want to say to me do not approach in a manner in which you have the right to judge me. I am a beautiful person. Difficult to approach if you are a stranger to me… But i am beautiful inside and out. I care for my friends and my family and I do love and adore them. So do not two face and/or and talk my name behind my back. Say it to me!
There is more to what was said.. but for respect… i will not publish the whole story.
Anyone knowing my personality would ask… why don’t you approach that person? And ask you do you like trash talking?
I would but I’m being stopped by someone who means the world to me. I am suppressing my feelings and how hurt I am to make her happy. I even made an indirect comment to facebook (fully well knowing he would see it) but indirectly saying it to him (because of the loved one) and i was asked to remove it. I am mad. I am sad. I am annoyed. I am irritated. I am disappointed. why? Because i have to suppress my feelings so that the loved one can continue to have a ‘relationship’ with that person. I think ( i may be wrong) I should have the right to leave a comment where i very well please. Sometimes i wonder… where is my limit.. and when am i going to reach it.
Sincerely wriiten by an extremely pissed dreamer
What the fuck is people’s problems? Seriously…you are beautiful inside and out Rosie and anyone who says otherwise is simply blind. I do think you have the right to leave the comment regardless.
First of all, if this person knows about this, they should be just as upset as you are. Relationships come and go, and yes friends do too, but friendships usually last longer than relationships do. (I say usually.)
I would tell your loved one that while you understand and respect her wishes to continue a relationship with this person, that you need to feel you have the right to defend yourself against personal attacks. Eventually, your supression of your feelings in this matter could become resentment towards your loved one. I’m not saying it will, but it could. You really should sit down with them and tell them what your feelings on the matter are and ask them
what your options are for a compromise on this matter.